The Bible tells to to judge and not to judge. How can we know when to do judge and not judge? The Bible gives the answer and by following its outline, it will free just from judgmental attitudes and hurt and tear people down.
The Cross event brought disappointments to seemingly every class of people involved. The Disciples, His followers, The Jewish Leaders, even Pilate a non-Jewish person. But broken dreams would ultimately be changed for the followers of Jesus. For God would revived those broken dreams.